07/21/2026
Speaking as a millennial...
Can children be bored anymore? This is a question I've asked myself often. Sometimes I wonder if we can ever go back to how things used to be.
For me, I thrived on boredom. Did I always like being bored? Absolutely not. I'm sure you remember hearing your parents say, "It's okay to be bored." "Go outside." "Go find something to do." Sometimes I was annoyed, but every single time, I'd eventually find something. Even if that something was bouncing a ball outside just to see how high I could make it go, riding my bike until the streetlights came on, or making up games that somehow kept us entertained for hours.
Nowadays, it feels like the second a child says, "I'm bored," a screen appears. So many kids are glued to electronics, their faces inches from a screen, never even noticing the world happening around them. Then there are moments when I see it... kids outside laughing until they can't breathe, chasing bubbles, drawing all over the driveway with chalk, or making up games that don't make much sense to anyone but them. Every time I do, my heart catches a little glimpse of what childhood used to feel like.
In a world that wants kids to have phones, social media, and TikTok by second grade, when they're already being asked to grow up so much faster than we ever did, it breaks my heart for them. I just want them to experience a little piece of what made our childhood priceless.
So let the littles be bored. Let them climb trees and reach for the branches. Let them bounce a ball until dinner is ready. Let them cover the driveway in chalk, run through sprinklers, cannonball into the pool, look for shapes in the clouds, read books, go to the park, catch butterflies, and laugh until they tip over.
Some of my favorite images aren't because they're perfectly posed. They're because, for just a second, they take me right back to a childhood that felt slower, simpler, and full of little moments we never realized would one day become the memories we'd miss the most. Children only have a few years to be a child; they have the rest of their lifetime to be an adult. Don't let society, screens, and social media steal that from them.
Xo, Alicia