05/12/2026
You’re supposed to have the ring, get them dressed up, and bring them somewhere beautiful, all without them knowing. How do you do it?
Plan a cover story:
Many of the couples I’ve photographed chose to make dinner reservations afterwards. Dressing up for dinner provides a natural reason for nice clothes. The proposal is planned as a romantic walk before what ends up being their celebration dinner.
Make it sort of ordinary:
If you’re planning something completely out of character, your partner may get suspicious. Your plan should be rooted in activities you already enjoy together. Don’t be too pushy about things like manicures or fancy outfits either. Try to subtly encourage them to wear their favorite outfit.
Involve a trusted friend:
You can use a friend to help with the setup, or even take them to the location. They won’t even know you’re there waiting for them! Just be careful with who and how many people know, to avoid accidentally letting the secret slip.
Hide the ring carefully:
This may actually be the hardest part, especially if you live together. Find a place they’ll never look, like the back of your sock drawer.
Plan decoy dates:
In the months before, plan a few romantic dates that could be the proposal date. Your partner will never know which one will be the real proposal day!
My full proposal guide includes tips on everything from locations to ring buying while adding in sentimental details that make the moment unforgettable. Sign up to get it at the link in bio.
