03/06/2026
don't quit, babe. that's what they want. β€οΈ
*these are live, recorded phone calls that I received in 2022.
Being an artist is not always pretty or fun or nice. There's not always support.
In 2021, I had just gotten out of a toxic relationship and began making music to try and heal. I was having hormone & stress issues, my face broke out all the time (hence the crater face comment). I was sad, overwhelmed, and still striving to be the best mom I could. I was not okay for a little bit.
These were the types of things I would receive from one of the local musicians who did everything she could to get me to quit and tear me down. In over a year of this harassment, I never ONCE responded and she just wouldn't stop. She had her friends join in. It was miserable. I thank God, my husband, my true friends, and my kids who supported me through it, especially when I wanted to give up.
My motivation never changed. The more she attacked, the more shows I booked, the kinder I was to people I loved and complete strangers.
In 2022, I won the Henry Glover Songwriting Competition, judged by Tony Stampley (who wrote more songs for Hank Williams Jr. than any other writer).
By 2024, I was one of the 25 artists in Arkansas awarded the $10,000 Catalyze Grant from -America Arts Alliance to further my career in music. That moment solidified in my mind that I was an artist and just maybe, I didn't suck.
Maybe my dreams weren't impossible. And I knew not only did I want to pursue it, but I wanted to encourage others along the way.
In 2026, we are recording our first full length album, with 4 years of our hearts poured into it.
I tried to channel my inner Katt Williams "If you got 14 haters right now, your goal should be to get to 16 by this summer." And let me tell you, that s**t is much easier said than done because people are mean. Whether you are good, bad, just starting something new, indifferent. Someone will find some way to make a stab. Especially over the internet.
The point is - if you love something, don't quit.
Do not be affected by people who's opinion holds no value.
Keep creating.