07/24/2026
I hate that I even have to make this post, but before jumping into an even busier part of the season, I think it’s important to share.
I received a message from a new client asking why their gallery wasn’t finished because “they had seen me posting on social media consistently” 😳
Just for some context, the session was less than 2 weeks ago.
My contract states a turnaround time of up to 4 weeks for final galleries. That timeline exists for a reason. While I almost always deliver much sooner, I refuse to rush through someone’s memories just to meet an unrealistic expectation.
Running this small business involves so much more than editing.
Every single week I’m photographing sessions, culling thousands of images, hand editing galleries, answering emails, Facebook messages, and texts. Helping clients choose outfits, working on making my business better, scouting new locations, preparing questionnaires, scheduling sessions, keeping my studio clean and ready to go, designing custom cake smash setups, ordering props and supplies, planning upcoming minis, responding to inquiries, delivering galleries, and yes… posting on social media.
But there are two roles that will always come before all of that.
I’m a wife, and I’m a mom.
It’s summer. My kids are home, and these summers are numbered. They deserve a mom who isn’t behind a computer from sunrise to midnight. They deserve days at the pool, spontaneous ice cream trips, afternoons at the park, movie nights on the couch, and someone cheering from the sidelines at their sports. They deserve a mom who’s present, not one who’s constantly saying, “Just give me five more minutes.”
My children deserve the best of me. Owning a business doesn’t mean I’m available 24/7. It doesn’t mean my family gets whatever is left of me after I’ve answered every message and edited every gallery.
Social media is part of my job. Seeing me post online does not mean I’m choosing Facebook over your gallery. It means I’m marketing my business so I can continue this small business of mine.
If your gallery has gone beyond the turnaround time I promised, I absolutely want you to reach out. (Truthfully, I can count on one hand the number of times that’s happened in the last four years.) but sometimes, galleries get hidden in a spam folder. If you’re excited about your images, and couldn’t remember when they’d be delivered by all means send me a message!
But questioning why your gallery isn’t complete well before the agreed upon deadline because you’ve seen me active online is unfair. It assumes I’m not working, when the reality is that I’m balancing dozens of responsibilities while honoring every commitment I’ve made to every client, and to my family.
I have never forgotten a client.
I have never intentionally delayed a gallery.
And I will never sacrifice quality just to quiet impatience.
What I ask in return is simple: trust the process you agreed to when you booked. Every gallery is edited with care, in the order it belongs, and every family deserves that same level of attention.
Thank you to the clients who continue to show grace, patience, and kindness during busy season. I promise your memories are worth the wait.
I absolutely LOVE what I do, but being a wife, and a mom to those three sweet faces in this photo will always be my greatest priority - that I won’t apologize for and I hope you’ll always respect that. Because after all, I’m only one person 🫶🏻
(Photo by : Shanyn Nicole Photographer in Arizona 🥰)