05/08/2026
7 years ago I sat across from my therapist/coach/shamanic guide.
I sat and expressed to her the pains I had experienced because of the boxes people had put me in.
(Btw, nobody can put you in a box that you also don’t place yourself in)
She asked a question that has shifted my entire perspective.
She said: how is that perfect for you?
I looked at her and said, did you not hear me? I just told you how this has brought a lot of pain in my life.
She again said, yeah and how was this perfect for you? what is the gift?
As we went through each of my pains, one by one, I was able to shift the perspective and see how each negative word I had taken on had, in fact, shaped my entire life.
I was able to see how each word was an actual gift. Even if it was something I had to fight to reclaim, even that was the gift.
We each have versions of ourselves we don’t like. We have qualities that aren’t our favorite. Or perhaps the shape of our body is something we reject.
The power is in the process of being in complete adoration of those parts of us. Loving them, thanking them for showing up.
If you would like to work together in a photo shoot to reclaim the places you have played small or stayed quiet, DM me and let’s have a conversation.