09/04/2026
This week I was reminded again why my job as a photographer is so very important. This week we lost our beautiful golden retriever, Riley. She was 14 years old and had just been diagnosed with cancer for the 2nd time, this time with osteosarcoma. With this newest diagnosis last month, we decided that we were going to fill her last months with all the adventures we could. Sadly, we just lost our other dog, Bailey, only 2 months ago, also from cancer. She was only 11. These 2 were probably the most photographed dogs on the planet. I literally have thousands of pictures of each of them.
Last month we took Riley on a beach getaway weekend. I brought my work camera with me and decided to get up early one morning and do a beach photoshoot with our girl. We had friends with us at the beach house, and they were kind enough to get up at 6am with us to take photos of my wife and I with Riley. Then my wife and I took turns taking photos of each other with our pup. I hadn't really planned on doing this so we just wore casual outfits we brought with us. The gnats were in FULL force and it was super humid, so my lens fogged really badly. We had some rude old lady stop and scold us for having a dog on the beach. When we told her that Riley had cancer and we were trying to do one last photoshoot her reply was, "my cat just died". Some people just need to not talk, but whatever. All this to say that the situation wasn't ideal but we pressed forward.
Anyway, we had an absolutely beautiful sunrise, and our sweet girl got to stick her toes in the ocean, which was one of her favorite things.
I'm sharing this because I'm so thankful that we took these photos. Do I wish I was 20lbs lighter? yes. Do I wish I had a better outfit? yes. Do I wish my lens hadn't fogged up? yes. Do I wish I had done my makeup and hair? yes. But these photos make my heart fill with love. Our girl was so happy to be with us and to be the star of the show.
So, no matter what your objections might be, take the photos. Whether it's your weight, your outfits, your backdrop, or your schedule....those things seem miniscule when you have a beautiful memory and photo to survive on when things feel dark.
Don't wait and live with regret by wishing you had taken the photos. When the photos are all you have left, you'll be thankful you took them.