02/11/2026
We’re going a little off schedule today with this one because I’ve been cleaning up old hard drives this week, and sometimes it’s honestly just wild to me thinking about how long I’ve been doing this. I guess you could say I’m just so full of gratitude.
Going after your dreams takes a lot of courage, a lot of sacrifice, a s**t ton of dedication, and a literal army of people who believe in you and support you through all of your wins, losses, failures, mental breakdowns, and those moments where you’re crying so many happy tears because you finally figured something out.
Its so easy to compare yourself to what you see online and assume everyone else figured it out overnight. I’ve fallen into that trap more times than I can count, but over the last year, I’ve been working really hard to stop measuring my business against anyone else’s and just built it in a way that feels right for me.
In April, I’ll be celebrating four years of doing this full-time. And it’s not like I “finally” know what I’m doing, because honestly I’ve always poured my heart into this and I’ve always cared deeply about creating an experience that meant something. But I do feel more grounded now.
I know who I’m talking to, and I know what’s important to them. I love my editing style and my branding. And I love the people I get to work with across all of my niches. It’s hard to explain unless you’ve built something from the ground up, but everything feels aligned now.
And none of this happened because of hard work alone.
It happened because of the friends who trusted me with their weddings when I had never shot one before, the clients who supported me during hard seasons, the people who show up for my last minute model calls, the same few names who hype me up on every single post, the couples who come back for maternity and family sessions, and the ones who trust me with their most important moments.
This will always mean way more to me than any number attached to this business.
So if you’ve ever hired me, shared my work, believed in me, or cheered me on from the sidelines, thank you. Truly. You are the reason I get to do this, and I’m so unbelievably grateful for it. 🩵