07/22/2026
The wedding prep mistake that can change how you feel about your wedding photos.
It sounds harsh, but it’s something I wish every bride knew before her wedding day.
The other year had a bride reach out to me a year after her wedding because she never truly loved her photos. She didn’t dislike the moments. She didn’t dislike the photography.
She didn’t feel like herself.
She asked if I could completely re-edit her gallery to change her makeup. I did, because I wanted her to love her memories. Then, not long after, I experienced a similar situation with another client in a wedding party, then a bride with a spray tan.
It broke my heart.
Here’s what I want every bride, bridesmaid, and even moms to know:
If your makeup doesn’t feel like you, please say something.
If the foundation feels too heavy, the lashes are too dramatic, the lipstick isn’t your color, or you simply don’t recognize yourself in the mirror, speak up.
Your makeup artist wants you to feel beautiful.
Your photographer wants you to feel confident.
Your entire vendor team wants you to walk away loving every part of your day.
But we can’t fix what we don’t know.
Yes, photographers can make some retouches.
We can often times reduce shine, soften / remove blemishes, and clean up distractions. But changing an entire makeup look across hundreds of photos isn’t realistic, and even when it is possible, it takes an incredible amount of time and money and can never replace how you felt on your wedding day.
If advocating for yourself feels uncomfortable, ask your maid of honor, your mom, your sister, or someone you trust to help speak up for you. SHOOT TELL ME!!! (See what I did there… I mean it when I say you’re stuck with me, I am your advocate and most of the time I know the MUA)
Your wedding day isn’t the day to settle for “it’s probably fine.”
You deserve to look in the mirror and think, “That’s me.”
Because years from now, when you open your wedding gallery, I don’t just want you to love your photos.
I want you to love the person looking back at you.
Save this for your wedding day, and tag a bride who needs this reminder.