Misfits Like Me

Misfits Like Me Inclusive, Empowering St. Louis Photographer for the rest of us Professional misfit. Former paramedic, forever photographer. LGBTQIA+ friendly. Kink positive.

I've spent 20+ years capturing love stories, but my real passion? Celebrating the beautifully unconventional souls who've never quite fit the mold. At mIsFiTs Like ME, I create empowering, intimate photography for free spirits, rebels, and anyone who's ever felt like an outsider. Because the world doesn't need more "perfect"—it needs more you. S*x worker safe space. All bodies, all identities, all stories welcome. Let's make art that makes you feel like the badass you are. 📸✨

“I didn’t give you permission to assume.” Good. Don’t. 😌We work consent-first, no-performance-asked. You set the pace. Y...
07/25/2026

“I didn’t give you permission to assume.” Good. Don’t. 😌

We work consent-first, no-performance-asked. You set the pace. You stay in charge.

Start with a free consult. What do you need—clarity or permission?

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mIsFiTs Like ME. https://www.misfitslikeme.com

"Bo***ir is only for soft and polished people." That myth can stay in the attic. We make space for your grit, your edge...
07/23/2026

"Bo***ir is only for soft and polished people." That myth can stay in the attic.

We make space for your grit, your edge, your weird little masterpiece energy. Consent first. No performance required. Not a pose, but presence.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign that your kind of sexy counts too — it does.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult.

What’s your vibe lately: soft, spicy, or both?

***irPhotographer

“Your photos shouldn’t ask you to perform.”We make images that witness you as you are — no mask, no weird smile tax, no ...
07/21/2026

“Your photos shouldn’t ask you to perform.”

We make images that witness you as you are — no mask, no weird smile tax, no pressure to be “more” of anything.

Just consent, care, and a camera that knows the difference between posing and pretending.

If you’ve been looking for a studio that gets your edges, your softness, and your whole glorious not-fitting-in thing… start with a free, no-obligation consult.

What part of being seen feels easiest for you? ✨

***ir

"You don't need softer edges to belong here. We make space for your real shape — messy, magnetic, a little feral. ✨No pe...
07/18/2026

"You don't need softer edges to belong here. We make space for your real shape — messy, magnetic, a little feral. ✨

No performance required. Just you, exactly as you are. Start with a free, no-obligation consult. What part of you are you done shrinking?

***irPhotographer

“Bo***ir isn’t about being camera-ready. It’s about being real.We keep it consent-first, no-pressure, and fully you — me...
07/16/2026

“Bo***ir isn’t about being camera-ready. It’s about being real.

We keep it consent-first, no-pressure, and fully you — messy hair, sharp edges, soft stuff, all welcome.

You don’t need to perform. You just need to show up as yourself.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult. Link in bio.

***irPhotography

Afraid of feeling pressured to perform? Your "stop" becomes the pose. We work consent-first – no forcing a "sexy face," ...
07/14/2026

Afraid of feeling pressured to perform? Your "stop" becomes the pose. We work consent-first – no forcing a "sexy face," no weird pressure. Just your real signals, your real pace. That’s sacred authenticity with teeth.

What’s your best stop signal?

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https://www.misfitslikeme.com

You can’t pose tension. (So we don’t.)Our misfit-coded confidence hack is simple: consent, then chaos.A client walked in...
07/11/2026

You can’t pose tension. (So we don’t.)

Our misfit-coded confidence hack is simple: consent, then chaos.
A client walked in tense—like her shoulders were holding up a whole performance. The first thing we did wasn’t a pose.
We dimmed the lights and picked one clear boundary: “safe to touch / not today.”

Then we paused.
When she exhaled, her shoulders dropped—and the session finally looked like her. Not a struggle face. Not a “make it work” moment. Just real-time confidence.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult. DM “MISFIT” for details.

***irPhotography

mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

“I came for confidence—and left with a new ‘yes’.”In our first consent check, a client froze mid-thought—then surprised ...
07/09/2026

“I came for confidence—and left with a new ‘yes’.”

In our first consent check, a client froze mid-thought—then surprised herself by saying yes to being photographed without fixing her stomach.
Not “try harder.” Not “pose better.” Just permission. Then we built the session around one question: “What can you allow to be seen today?”

We check in often.
You can pause.
You can stop.
You get to steer the session—not your body’s fear.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult (DM “MISFIT” for details).

***ir

mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

Her “most sacred thing” wasn’t her body—it was her boundaries.We built every pose around her yes/no check-in. Every time...
07/07/2026

Her “most sacred thing” wasn’t her body—it was her boundaries.

We built every pose around her yes/no check-in. Every time she paused, we adjusted. If she said “not like that,” it never became a debate. Then we let her hair fall messy—because her “self” doesn’t come in studio-perfect packages. 🖤

That’s the only rule on set: yours.

Start with a free, no-obligation consult. DM “MISFIT” and I’ll send details.

***irPhotography

mIsFiTs Like ME - Empowering photography for the rest of us. https://www.misfitslikeme.com ***irPhotographer

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