08/07/2026
“To Chicago, with love” postcard #3. Dearest Peter Kastis. I wasn’t in a band. I wasn’t anyone when I crashed The Firm’s party in 2000 at a bowling alley in Wrigleyville with our shared sister Surita. And for some reason you kept inviting me in to the rooms I didn’t know I could be in. Korn’s after party at Whitestar was the first. Then rolling around Chi with Joe and Shelley and Tommy. And once Lolla ramped up a few years later and I switched from serving cocktails to snapping photos, you vouched for me everywhere. Backstage, afters, benefits. It was like having the best uncle in the wings of the coolest stage on earth. You even threw me in a stunt copter over Jane’s Addiction in 2009. For 26 years you made me laugh, gasp and feel like I was a part of something bigger as you always created a memorable time. That I got to tell you how grateful I was this March at Billy’s bday feels surreal… for those first nights in the dark corner of Chateau when I moved to LA, the random dinners with my heroes after festivals in Chicago, the times you’d come to listen to Adam spin and watch She Wants Revenge and hold court like our king. i never hung out enough- despite your invitations- you were a tour de force and I’d just think “he doesn’t remember me…my appearance is different…I don’t belong.” But you always reminded me with a huge heavy hand on my shoulder that I did. You never forgot the ones you backed. You were the bridge of working class, music-loving Chicago to LA for so many of us. You are one of the all time greats and will never be forgotten. Sending love for your family, friends, your incredible collaborators and anyone lucky enough to bask for even a little bit in your massive presence. When I think of the best people I know, you are the center of that venn diagram more often than not.
That this is one of the last photos I took of you this year serves as a crushing reminder of how important it is to tell those who raise us up how grateful we truly are.
Thank you for everything and the stamp you put across the industry. May more follow your path.
Ascend, you gentle giant. Chicago forever.
Photographed in West Hollywood, March 2026