03/28/2026
Getting Dressed Is Not Superficial. It’s Strategic.
I am, in fact, a mother.
A mother of dragons.
Which means my off-duty uniform is… let’s call it “feral chic with snacks in the pockets.”
But then… I go into the city.
No one throws sand in my hair.
No one asks me for a snack every 11 seconds.
And suddenly… she appears.
The woman in the mirror with the sharp blazer, bold lips, and just enough gold chain to financially intimidate a small nation.
Here’s the thing—
I didn’t formally study styling.
I absorbed it.
Years of working alongside brilliant stylists, quietly watching, learning… until one day I realized:
Oh. I speak this language now. Fluently. Native level.
And styling? It’s not about clothes.
It’s about energy.
It’s about putting something on your body that says:
“I remember who I am.”
Because when you dress the part,
you don’t just look different—
you move differently.
You decide differently.
You show up differently.
And I’ve seen it over and over again with the women I photograph—
The moment they feel put together… something shifts.
Confidence isn’t forced. It arrives.
That’s why I style my shoots.
Not for aesthetics (okay yes also for aesthetics),
but because I know what happens next.
You don’t just get great photos.
You meet a version of yourself you forgot was always there.
And honestly?
She’s iconic.