06/07/2026
Are you wondering how to introduce your first born to the new baby?? Just a reminder..the secret to a smooth first meeting isn’t the perfect photo, it’s helping your firstborn feel like they haven’t been replaced and still are very loved!
Here are a few things you can do to help your toddler with the first meet and a few things we did as well😊
The “Hands-Free” Hello: When your first born walks in, don’t be holding the newborn. Keep your arms completely open for a massive hug first. We had Lainey in a bassinet in the living room.
The Gift Swap: Have a gift “from the baby” ready for the big sibling. We also made a card from lil lains to Ben for sharing mom and dad with her and that she understands it’s incredibly hard to do so and she’s looking forward to making memories together
Let Them Lead: Don’t force a hug or kiss. Let them check out the baby at their own pace. It may take a while for them to become besties, be patient
The “Baby Can Wait” : If both are crying and the baby is safe, tend to your toddler first. Say out loud “Hold on, baby, I’m helping big sister right now.” Hearing that they still come first is a huge confidence booster for them. Also Expect some regression (it’s totally normal!) Ben was excited to meet Lainey at first and he realized she was staying and he had a meltdown the entire rest of the day. We still incorporate the last two into our daily routine and try to give Ben jobs to help out so he feels important too!
Remember their entire world suddenly changed, be easy on them and be easy on yourself 💛
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