07/17/2026
Priscilla (Upham) Crosswell
Here Lyes the Body
of Mrs. Priscilla
Croswell, Wife to
Mr. Thomas
Croswell Aged
75 Years [December 8, 1717]
❖Priscilla (Upham) Crosswell was born about 1642, a daughter of Deacon John Upham and his first wife, Elizabeth (her maiden name isn't given in the record; some trees suggest "Slade," though that's not confirmed). Her father had come from Weymouth, Dorset, England, to Weymouth, Massachusetts, in 1635, and the family later settled in Malden.
❖She married Thomas Crosswell of Charlestown about 1662 — their first child arrived the following April. Thomas was born about 1633. Priscilla was admitted to the Charlestown church April 10, 1687; Thomas didn't join until January 20, 1705/6, nearly twenty years after his wife and just three years before his death.
The couple had twelve children:
1. Thomas, b. April 15, 1663; d. Dec. 25, 1682.
2. Priscilla, b. Dec. 17, 1664; m. Samuel Griffin.
3. Elizabeth, b. May 19, 1666; m. Thomas Call.
4. Hephzibah, b. May 20, 1668; m. Thomas Harris, 1685/6.
5. Naomi, b. Dec. 5, 1670; bapt. Feb. 6, 1687; m. Daniel Dana.
6. Silence, b. Feb. 7, 1672/3; bapt. Feb. 6, 1687; m. Joseph Hall.
7. Deborah, d. Aug. 22, 1674.
8. Deborah, b. Aug. 1, 1675.
9. William, b. July 27, 1676.
10. Caleb, b. Feb. 25, 1677/8; bapt. April 17, 1687.
11. Deborah, b. Oct. 1, 1680; d. June 13, 1681.
12. Thomas, b. June 29, 1684; bapt. April 17, 1687; d. Nov. 6, 1690, aged 6.
The name Deborah was used three times — the first and third died in infancy; the second, born 1675, has no further record. Four of the children (Naomi, Silence, Caleb, and the younger Thomas) were baptized together, apparently on the occasion of Priscilla joining the church in 1687.
❖By 1691/92, Silence was about nineteen and still in her parents' household — old enough to be named alongside Thomas and Priscilla in the case that would define how this family is remembered. That year, Rebecca (Long) Leigh, later Pownell, brought suit over the death of her daughter, fourteen-year-old Rebekah Leigh (Lee), who had been bound out as a servant to the Crosswells.
The following account comes from court-related records:
"A particularly sad case from Charlestown in 1691 tells of the deplorable treatment of Rebecca Lee, a young girl who was the bound-out servant of Thomas and Priscilla Crosswell. Her cruel treatment was recounted by a witness who saw the wife "beating the girl for not baking a batch of bread well, which was with a stick about as big as a man's finger." Rebecca Lee herself told others how Thomas Crosswell had "fetched a stick ... and beat her until she thought she was almost dead." When tried in court for the crime, the Crosswells mounted a vigorous defense, denying the harsh discipline and claiming that Rebecca Lee often caused mischief and was a "nasty slut," and presented the testimony of a doctor who claimed the injuries she suffered were likely the result of falling from a horse. Rebecca Lee's mother, Rebecca Pounding¹ [sic], served as the lead complainant and, of lower social standing than the Crosswells, was accused of being motivated by the prospect of a monetary payout. In the end, the Crosswells were acquitted and Rebecca Lee died at the age of twelve²[sic — she was fourteen; see her gravestone], her death attributed to the injuries she sustained from the Crosswells.³"
❖Priscilla died December 8, 1717, aged 75. Thomas had died nearly a decade earlier, August 30, 1708, also aged 75. Both are buried at Phipps Street Burying Ground, Charlestown.
❖Footnotes: ¹ Rebecca (Long) Leigh remarried to a Mr. Pownell; "Pounding" is incorrect. ² Thompson gives her age at death as twelve; this conflicts with her gravestone and the parish/court record, both of which give fourteen. ³ Roger Thompson, S*x in Middlesex: Popular Mores in a Massachusetts County, 1649–1699 (Amherst, MA: University of Massachusetts Press, 1986), 159–161, 163.
❖Sources: • Thomas Bellows Wyman, The Genealogies and Estates of Charlestown, Massachusetts, 1629–1818, Vol. 1, Crosswell family entry. • Thomas Bellows Wyman, same, Vol. 2, Leigh family entry. • Middlesex County Court Records, 1691/92 (Rebecca Lee case). • Brian Allen, Child Abuse in Colonial America (Master's thesis, UMass Boston, 2025). • Phipps Street Burying Ground, Charlestown.