08/14/2026
If you're planning your wedding... a good rule of thumb to follow is, start with your guest count... figure that out... once thats sorted, figuring out your venue becomes less stressful cause you have a number in mind as far as how large or small a space you need.
Your family is lovely and even if other people are helping with expenses, that doesn't give them the right to demand input on your decisions around guests and other things. Its your wedding and yiu deserve to enjoy it without being pressured and stressed by other people's thoughts. If you want to involve others, you can but beware a kitchen with too many cooks.
Love is to be celebrated by patience, selflessness. Kindness, thoughtfulness and workin with what you've got. Don't stretch yourselves thin chasing things that are simply for a day, you have your whole lives ahead of you. Good luck and enjoy the process.
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