04/29/2024
I am terrible keeping up with Instagram. I try to keep up with the trends, but I am so boring I prefer just sharing the pictures. That's what I love, that's what I'm good at. I'm too shy to show myself often for behind the scene videos and too scattered to remember when I do have something to share. Ha!
Navigating social media as a neurodivergent individual often feels like an uphill climb. My brain’s unique wiring presents a beautiful tapestry of challenges and triumphs. There were years when I grappled with accepting this intricate part of myself. But here’s the truth—I am not just managing; I am wholeheartedly embracing my distinctiveness.
My ADHD can make daily tasks like updating Instagram feel monumental at times. But this journey of self-acceptance has taught me that what some may see as hindrances are actually my superpowers. By embracing my neurodivergence, I’ve learned to approach my work with a focused intensity that’s uniquely mine.
In my photography, this means taking on a select number of weddings, giving my 125% to each, and understanding my limits. Over the years, I’ve discovered that I am not just a better photographer, but a more fulfilled artist when I only commit to what I can handle. This approach has significantly enhanced the quality of my work—year after year, my wedding shoots have become richer, capturing the genuine, unscripted joy of couples embracing their true selves.
Moving forward, I continue to celebrate who I am and encourage my clients to do the same. Because when we are our authentic selves, that’s when the real magic happens in front of the camera—sparks fly, genuine smiles light up, and unforgettable memories are captured.
Here’s to embracing our quirks and crafting beauty out of every unique shade we bring to the canvas of life.
