08/08/2025
‼️As sports and school kick off for the year, here’s your reminder‼️
If you invite an abusive coach or leader into your child’s world, you are contributing to the abuse cycle.
Every year, as a coach, I’m required to take training on how to keep my players safe… this includes learning how to recognize and stop abuse. I wish every parent was required to take this course because the reality is, abusers are strategic and calculated. They groom not only the victim, but also the unaware adults, friends and family around them. There are too many heart-breaking reasons why most abuse goes completely unreported.
The reality:
• 1 in 4 children will experience some form of abuse (physical, sexual, emotional, or neglect) before the age of 18.
• Up to 40% of adults report experiencing emotional or psychological abuse (As adults! In partnerships, the workforce and/or in their own family… ) And many of those adults were once children who learned that enduring harm (from a parent, teacher or coach) was “normal.”
And again, MOST abuse isn’t even reported… that means these numbers are likely much higher.
Adults, our role matters. Keep your eyes open. Trust your instincts and if something feels off, there’s a good chance it is.
Your child’s safety and mental health will always matter more than points on a scoreboard or some sort of status. Abusers know how to charm and make targets feel special - they create smoke and mirrors so that it’s easy for you to turn a blind eye to the reality of the situation.
Keep your eyes open, and keep your kids safe. Don’t be naive — abuse happens everyday.
Thank you all for doing your part to keep our most vulnerable safe! Be brave and be smart, and if you see something, say something. ❤️🙏🏻