08/17/2026
Open letter to my firstborn Jeri Abenina
Dear Jeri,
Wow, 28!!!!
You were the one who made me a mom. The first person who taught me a kind of love I never even knew existed, the kind that changes you completely and stays with you forever.
We are incredibly proud of you, not just for your accomplishments, but for the person youāve become. Your heart, your strength and the beauty you carry inside and out.
Although sometimes we have our differences, because what mother-daughter doesnāt, please donāt mistake those moments as bigger than what they are. Underneath it all is love that is constant, fierce and unconditional.
No matter how old you get or how far life takes you, I hope you always know that you have a home in me where you can come home exactly as you are, where you always belong and always loved.
Thereās something special about you being my first. We grew up together in so many ways, you were learning how to live in this world and I am learning how to be your mom. We figured it out together, beautifully and imperfectly.
Happy Birthday My Firstborn.
I hope you see yourself the way I see youā¦beautiful, capable,strong, worthy and so deeply loved. You will forever be one of the most beautiful parts of my life.
I love you,
Nanay