10/06/2023
On people pleasing and boundaries..
In the year long Embodied Healer Reiki Master Mentorship Program, the students/mentees and I are bonded. We go through this powerful multidimensional portal together.. and it’s a gift.
They are a reflection of me.. and topics that always come up are ‘people pleasing’ and ‘being uncomfortable with setting boundaries.’ I feel like it’s part of the evolution of a healer. We are natural helpers so of course we want to make others happy.. but at what cost?
I personally have grown so much. I am proud of the strong boundaries I have set in all aspects of my life. No more people pleasing when it is not something I want to do or someone I do NOT want to interact with. As I learn and grow and evolve I feel more and more into how precious and valuable my energy is.
AND SO IS YOURS!
I was listening to this song by Toni Jones called, “Energy Budget” and all I could say was yessssss! 🎯🏆🤩🙌🏼
“I recieve what others blind spots are, teaching me about budgeting my energy and setting them boundaries
I have the right to tell people what they don't wanna hear in the name of setting them boundaries.
I also wont exhaust myself on people who ain't listening, i'm done with people pleasing and attachment to making everyone happy with me.
I won’t share like how i used to share
PEOPLE WISER - i know now
PEOPLE PLEASER - isn’t love but it is fear
I am magnificent at releasing expired emotional ties to how I structure my life with people, knowledge, money, friends, nutrition, health of my body, love and time.
Im free from over explaining and justifying my choices.
My cutoffs aren't personal, they are spiritual.
Anyways, I call back all energy that belongs to me.”
The ‘people pleaser isn’t love but it is fear,’ gets me every time. We people please because of fear of judgement and/or rejection. But when you grow through this there is freedom.
I hope you are taking the time to honor yourself by setting healthy boundaries today.
I love you. ❤️🔥
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