06/24/2023
Change is hard.
As a highly sensitive person, change has never been easy for me. "Stop messing" was a common phrase even in my youth as my family navigated the evolution of holidays, vacations, and everything else that comes with the passage of time.
We just got back from a vacation with my full family, and with now four kids in tow with varied interests and nap schedules, we opted to stay at a different hotel. And let me tell you, it was fantastic. We came and went as we pleased and were able to still meet up as a full group.
Were there some parts I missed about the place we always stayed? Of course! Were there new parts I liked better? Yup!
And I just kept reflecting on how change is such a constant, but it's felt so much more heavily since becoming a mom. Do I miss their chubby thighs and sweet little voices? Of course. Do I love having more "real" conversations with them as they get older? It's the best!!
So, if you're struggling with change, just know, yeah, it is hard. Really hard sometimes. But the unexpected joys are amazing!