05/26/2026
It’s funny how differently we see ourselves vs how others see us. I have always seen Sara as super outgoing, full of energy, full of wit with a contagious laugh, with a go-with-the-flow type energy. I love being around her. So when I delivered this gallery to her she told me I have this amazing gift of hiding her anxiety & bringing out the best in her family. Anxiety? What anxiety? Sure, I saw she was a little tense in the beginning, but most every mother is like that in the first moments of their shoot.
To say that the perfect photographer-client pairing exists is an understatement. It truly does exist. And this is a beautiful example of that. The Lin family & I bring the best out in each other, our energies feeding off each other. And I see this every time we get together.
I use to be a little hurt when someone would reach out to book me, only to not book me for whatever reason. It’s been a while since I’ve been “offended” like this because a long time ago I realized that I was never meant to photograph them. Telling their story was not my story. And them rejecting me was a gift. Over all these years I have been incredibly fortunate to have truly wonderful people be my clients. I don’t really have those “horror” stories I hear so often from other photographers. And for that I am so grateful.
Sometimes the “perfect pairing” isn’t really there, and that’s ok. In the more challenging shoots, I always seem to learn something about myself and others that I get to grow from, and I’m good with that.
But when that perfect pairing happens, it just feels so good for all of us.
So back to Sara… despite her anxiety & wanting everything to be “perfect”, she found a way to trust me and let go enough to be present for her family. When she finally realized all I wanted was HER as she is, and not some Pinterest fantasy, she let go. I’m not after an AI reproduction or a fantasy no one else can attain. I crave real and true moments and feelings we all can relate to and connect with.
So if you are ever in front of my camera, just know that all I want is YOU. Just you. As you are.