12/01/2023
đFemale rivalry gives off weak bitch vibes ladyâs! đ
â˘If we want to thrive together, we need to band together to support and uplift one another with mutual respect, dignity, and kindness. Instead of feeling envious or competitive, we should support and uplift each other when one of us achieves something great. This can create a positive and empowering environment where we can feel supported and motivated to reach our own goals.
⢠Have you ever felt like you couldnât trust a close female friend because of female rivalry?
Most women have! Unfortunately, rivalry among women is a very common occurrence, but there is a shining light at the end of it. Once we are aware that this is happening, we can change it!
You then can and will even grow stronger and feel more in your own powerful energy that way instead of having to stealing power from other woman you feel inferior next to so your ego controls your behaviors because yes of course itâs the easiest route to feel better in the present moment next to or in comparison to someone YOU feel is of higher value than you, is it that you donât want to put in the effort or work it takes to dig down deep to tap into your soulâs potential that everyone truly has but no one wants to do the work themselves to have and takes the easy weak bitch way out, or would rather let an other woman do all the work then you just take from her, means your just lazy and donât want to do more than you have to âbossâ so letâs stop this.. want to feel real power then letâs dig down deep to get you tapped in sis âşď¸
đWhat is female rival and why do females even do it?đ
Female rivalry happens when a woman uses her power to keep another woman down, mistreats her, or competes unfairly.
Girls and women who capture the attention of the opposite s*x are often targets of relational aggression.
As women with power, we donât compete with weak bi***es because of men or anything else is a waste of time and energy. It is our duty to be responsible for our actions and never enable any hurtful behavior.
More, if you are a powerful and beautiful woman. Donât let others derogate your character or play by their rules. Donât downgrade yourself to please others. When we donât fit the culture, we create our culture.
Over time, I learned to distance myself from women who mistreated me, and did not trust or confide in them. Eventually I realized that their behavior was about them and not about me but everything to do with hoe they felt about themselves on the inside.
Women unconsciously absorb beliefs about their rightful place, and those messages show up in how women judge each other. That can lead women to mistreat, underestimate, and distance themselves from other women in order to increase their power
âď¸Signs of female competitionâď¸
The instinct to one-up each other persists today. If youâve experienced conflict between female friends or female jealousy in the workplace, it may be rooted in survival-oriented competitiveness or ideals.
If your female peers are competing with you, it might seem like theyâre just being mean. They may engage in behaviors like:
â˘gossiping
â˘negativity
â˘sabotaging
â˘gaslighting
â˘nosiness
â˘boasting
â˘mimicking
â˘downplaying your successes
â˘discrediting you in front of others
â˘The goal of these behaviors would be to reposition you further down in the social rank, so youâre less able to secure the assets that your rival wants.
Uncover your own hidden biases by asking yourself these questions:
Do you judge other women for choices that you wouldnât personally make?
Do you criticize women for minor transgressions and forgive men for major ones?
Do you make excuses for menâs behavior as âjust the way it isâ?
Do you compete more than you collaborate with your female colleagues?
đFriendshipđ
Female friendships arenât immune to competition. Maybe thereâs an outspoken member of your group who routinely sets the tone for your social events. She might simply be an extrovert, or she might be competitive.
Some competition between alpha females can prompt personal growth. Other times it can become toxic. If your competitive friend is causing you stress, it might be time to set some boundaries and have a conversation with them.
It can also help if you view the situation through the lens of competition as flattery. If your friend sees you as the high bar to reach, it may help to take it as a compliment.
âď¸There can also be healthy competition among women.âď¸
Sometimes competition can inspire self-improvement. Your health-conscious cubicle neighbor who cycles 10 miles to and from work might motivate you to pack an apple each day and go for a walk at lunc
