03/03/2025
I attempted to be signed by at two different phases of my 10-year professional journey. And both times, I wasn’t ready. It wasn’t my time.
2024 ended, and I told myself: Start where you are. Continue how you’ve been.
Then 2025 came, and that wasn’t the plan anymore. I wanted more. I wanted to do more, learn more, grow more, and be confident—always—in what I do. So I tried again.
Maybe they’d reject my application again. And if they did? Well, the worst that could happen had already happened before. So just try.
Thirty minutes after submitting my application, I got a response. A week later, I was sitting in what I thought was an interview. But it wasn’t.
They already knew everything about me. They shared the ins and outs of the industry, spoke about the work, the process, the reality of it all. It felt surreal—so much so that I literally stopped them mid-sentence and asked:
“Wait… IS THIS HAPPENING???”
They laughed at my confusion and silliness (I could feel the shock in my cheekbones). I laughed in nervousness. And then, after our chuckle, they said it:
“Yes. It’s happening.”
The meeting ended, and as I walked back to my car, all I could say to myself was, “Amen, thank you, Jesus.” A phrase my mom taught me to say whenever something happened—big or small. A phrase I repeated every single night after closing shop at Side Wing.And it continues to be the words that resonate with me, keeping me grounded and grateful for all that life hands me.
Moral of the story? Just because you’ve failed or been rejected before doesn’t mean it will never be for you. It just isn’t your season YET! But when your season does come? Be ready for all that it may bring.
Ashleigh Frans, I’m proud of you, “my bokkie”.😭🤲🏽